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The advice below is based on personal experiences of quite a few couples who met this way, and now are successfully married.Try to choose the ways that are acceptable for you - do not think of the techniques described as hard-and-fast, but rather as a guide.I know a case where a woman refused a guy with a 500K income in favor of an ordinary teacher, because she liked him more personally.From the sidelines it may seem stupid, but I would probably do the same if I were her.He seemed too good to be true to her, and this made her feel insecure. Since long distance relationships don't make much sense without possibility of being together in the future, the women need assurance you are ready to offer this commitment. I think one of the reasons is that women in Russia grow wise at a younger age, and having a relationship with a foreign man of their own age is like having affair with a teenager.If you are not looking for a marriage partner, Russian ladies won't take you seriously. Many of my clients said they were surprised at receiving letters from attractive professional women (doctors, economists, accountants) 10-15 years younger than themselves. Difficulties in life make people thoughtful, the same way that age does.The pick of the society's pressure on the woman to get married is at the age of 27; after that her family and friends start thinking she will never get married and give up on her; she herself also starts getting used to the idea she will never have her own family.Once women become content with the idea of never getting married, their requirements to a prospective partner soar.
I know cases where a woman did not try to pursue an acquaintance to a rich, good-looking guy who was highly interested in her just because she didn't consider herself good enough.
The more foreign men seek partners in Russia, the better choice women have, the higher their requirements become.
Young girls tend to be less worried about difference in age than older women: a girl of 20 years old is normally interested in men up to 45, whilst a woman of 40 years old will usually limit her search to men under 55.
Just getting married to avoid the shame of being single is already not enough for them.
You should decide for yourself what you are looking for in a woman, which personal qualities are a must and what you will never accept.