For many of us, our emotional baggage can make finding the right romantic partner a difficult journey.
Perhaps you grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid, healthy relationship and you doubt that such a thing even exists.
Despite the stigma in some social circles that accompanies being single, it’s important not to enter a relationship just to “fit in.” Being alone and being lonely are not the same thing.
And nothing is as unhealthy and dispiriting as being in a bad relationship.
In general, you can talk about your feelings, as long as you don’t get too heavy, or play therapist or mother. Men have a natural sense of pride that is very different to women.
If he really wanted to talk about it, he will find a way to draw it out of you.
Life as a single person offers many rewards, such as being free to pursue your own hobbies and interests, learning how to enjoy your own company, and appreciating the quiet moments of solitude.
However, if you’re ready to share your life with someone and want to build a lasting, worthwhile relationship, life as a single person can also be frustrating.
You could be attracted to the wrong type of person or keep making the same bad choices over and over, due to an unresolved issue from your past.Please call 03 to discuss your options or use Find Your Nearest to discover your nearest Centre. Sometimes the ‘honeymoon’ comes first, other times, it comes later. It is not to your advantage to be too serious, controlling or wifey. Or cause alarm in his head by telling him how messy your life is.Then check out these amazing videos that will get you straight on the journey of meeting and attracting your dream guy. Live Chat allows you to talk to a trained relationship counsellor in real time.
So try to be modest about your accomplishments and steer the conversation back to his accomplishments. Remember you don’t have to keep these things to yourself for ever.