20 year age gap dating
Instead, we’ll spend our weekends watching a film or talking about philosophy.
I know it’s shallow, but I kind of enjoy being ‘arm candy’ too.
The harsh reality is, because he’s 29 years older than me, I’m probably destined to spend a large chunk of my future without my love.
Presuming we both live a healthy lifespan, I’ll be in my 50s or 60s when he goes.
” whispers my friend, incredulously, as my 60-year-old partner leaves the table go to the loo. ” I’m in my 30s and was sick of bad boys - we decided to try and make it work.
The generational issue almost put us off getting together at the start, but then we just thought “sod it!
Often the thought of going to his funeral keeps me awake at night.
And yes, one day I will become his ‘carer’ and it’ll be very hard.
Since we met, I’ve stopped drinking so much and having casual sex to feel better about myself.
I just hope that 60-year-old me will be strong enough to focus on the happy memories, rather than the grief of losing the man she loved.
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Right now though, all I can say is that it’s true love – and I’m willing to take the rough with the smooth.
Ideally I’d have fallen for a man in his 30s, but I didn't.